If you keep insisting the backlash is about the break up you are either completely brainless or knowingly lying.

Timeline


15.11.2020
Kai publishes IG pic tagging Zilv, and a video clip from his car.
Zilv is in Newcastle, a fan informs Rourke who is sick at home.
Rourke publishes IG story saying he’s sorry and will always be Zilv’s boy.
18.11.2020
Zilv is back in Essex. Fans ask for explanations, but Zilv & Rourke ask for time to sort it out for themselves.
19.11.2020
Zilv publishes IG story with 2Pac song "Fuck All Y'All" saying it's for the narrow minded haters. 
22.11.2020 
Zilv & Rourke engagement anniversary. Kai publishes IG story about missing his hoodie
24.11.2020
Zilv gives vague explanations to fans: ”me and Kai are a thing, but I’m together with Rourke”
Zilv takes Rourke to his dad’s house and drives to Newcastle to see Kai
Fans are confused but mostly supportive towards both, still hoping for explanation.
25.11.2020 
Zilv and Kai publish first pic together in Kai’s IG. Rourke hides his IG.
Rourke is devastated and so is the majority of fandom.
29.11.2020 
Kai posts in IG a question why he’s being compared to Rourke… After few weeks of constantly using the same poses, the same songs, the same clothes, after rubbing the icons of Rourke’s first date - the ice-cream and the hoodie - in the fandom’s face, he wonders why he is compared.
Zilv and Rourke took ring emojis off of their IG bio.
Zilv posts on IG saying thanks to people who support them and telling the haters to go kill themselves.
1.12.2020 
Zilv blocked Rourke in IG ”because he was so upset” by Zilv’s updates.
2.12.2020 
Zilv blames fans and Rourke & starts to victimize himself ”if only you knew the reason for break up…” 
Zilv shares DM where he’s talking with a fan and sharing Rourke’s messages how Rourke begs him to come and get him from his dad’s back to Essex.
DM of Rourke’s conversation with a fan in August start to be shared. In them he pours his heart out telling how heartbroken he is that Zilv continues to message with Kai even though he knows how much it hurts Rourke. The message reveals Kai was already going after Zilv with his old IG account.
5.12.2020 
Rourke posts several emotional tweets on Twitter indicating the relationship is finally over for him.
He deletes them soon after.
6.12.2020 
Kai spills the tea on threesomes, painting Rourke promiscuous and Zilv heartbroken over that. 
7.12.2020
First person to come forward who had threesomes with Zilv and Rourke challenges Kai’s story, stating it was Zilv who organized the threesomes. 
Kai starts victimizing himself, lamenting how nobody gave him a chance and not taking any responsibility for things he has done. 
Zilv & Rourke Twitter publishes their explanation of threesomes, apparently written by Zilv.
8.12.2020 
Rourke gives his point of view in IG and asks for all the hatred to stop
Kai is victimizing himself in IG and throwing shade on Rourke
9.12.2020 
Zilv confirms they had a threesome with the guy who came forward 7.12.
11.12.2020 
Zilv took Rourke to his dad’s again.
Zilv continues giving various reasons for the break up and continues to throw shade at Rourke for threesomes, trying to portrait himself as a victim and hinting Rourke wasn’t happy to spend time with just him. 
12.12.2020 
Rourke’s sister Autumn appears in Twitter warning people not to believe in Zilv’s lies.
Rourke is taking all the blame in his IG story. It’s evident in his text he’s deeply in love with Zilv and would do anything to be with him, which is completely contradictory to Zilv portraying him only caring about sex with strangers.
Rourke is once again asking for the hatred to stop
13.12.2020 
Zilv continues tweeting and throwing shade at Rourke, implying Rourke is lazy, that Zilv has been treated wrong by the fandom, that he wants to delete Rourke’s videos but Rourke won’t let him
Zilv claims public videos in PH don’t make much income at all. 
14.12.2020 
Kai uploaded a photo in IG which seemed to be a screenshot of porn film of him and Zilv.
Rourke published a heartbreaking IG story with lots of memories of the good times of relationship, including photos of him and Zilv, and their messages to each other.
Fans became exceedingly worried about Rourke and were reaching out to him through family. Autumn states in Twitter that Rourke is fine and with family. Rourke also adds to his story asking fans to leave his family alone.
Rourke's other sister Riley also comes forward.
15.12.2020
Zilv publishes DM conversations to prove Rourke's family wrong. While doing that he doxxes one of Rourke's sisters and another sister's partner. Zilv also mentioned in a couple of tweets some details concerning Rourke's health, another breach of privacy. 
Autumn speaks compassionately of Kai and reminds the fans that Kai is as much Zilv's victim as Rourke.
16.12.2020
Pornhub Awards are announced. Zilv won the most popular gay performer and Rourke won Top Twink performer. 
All Zilv & Rourke PH videos are taken down, apparently as part of PH's larger inspection
Rourke published IG post of the win, also mentioning his sadness.
Zilv publishes DM conversation between him and Rourke, where Rourke states he's been crying and he will always wait for Zilv. 
Kai publishes IG story saying Zilv is his and referring to Rourke as Zilv's co-star. 
Another person Zilv & Rourke had threesomes with comes forward to confirm Kai's revelation of them was distorted. According to him the person wanting the threesomes was Zilv and Rourke needed to be convinced. 
20.12.2020
Zilv's IG account is taken down for violating community rules.
Kai's nude photos from about a year ago are leaked and spread in the Internet. Turns out Kai had OF page for few weeks when he had turned 18. 
22.12.2020
Zilv & Rourke 1st date 3 year anniversary. Rourke publishes a video of his growth - from childhood photos to fond moments with Zilv, and story where he pours his heart out about the pain he's going through. 
25.12.2020
Rourke IG story states a sunflower lost his sun and became a moonflower. 
26.12.2020
Rourke IG story with Pink: Blow me (one last kiss). Fans see this as a sign he's starting to move on. 
Fans voice concern that Rourke clearly has no more access to the shared Twitter account. Many fans of Rourke had been blocked from the account. 
27.12.2020
Rourke changes his IG bio and removes the mention of being Zilv's co-star.
28.12.2020
Rourke comments on the name his fandom has been using of themselves, stating "Peaches" is a cute name. 
30.12.2020
Riley tweets that Rourke is fine, and they will be going to Essex to pick up the rest of his things. 
Rourke changes his IG bio adding the remark "if you can't afford diamonds, you can't afford me". 
Pornhub videos are back up. 
31.12.2020
Zilv tweets making assumptions of Rourke's future. 
1.1.2021
Riley says in tweet that Rourke is aware of the toxicity of his past relationship, and wouldn't want to get back together with Zilv, stating "there's a difference between loving someone and wanting to be with someone". 
Rourke posts pics in IG with a caption "I ain't losing something I ain't got". 
Rourke's friend Mich comments on the photo saying if Zilv & Rourke are meant to be together, it will happen, and that Zilv will always love Rourke. 
2.1.2021 
Rourke asks people to stop hatred towards Mich for her comment on the day before. He also asks for compassion from people and reminds that he still loves Zilv and wants the hatred to stop. 
Riley tweets Rourke is moving on and needs space.